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VANESSA ANN VIGILANTE PHD

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Give Your Mind A Stretch
Be cognitively flexible. Go with the flow. Ups and downs are natural to daily life. When something does not go your way, you have a...

Vanessa Ann Vigilante PhD
Feb 11, 20161 min read


C. S. Lewis: On Crying
“Crying is all right in its way while it lasts. But you have to stop sooner or later, and then you still have to decide what to do.” ―...

Vanessa Ann Vigilante PhD
Feb 10, 20161 min read


Trees Teach Patience
Once a seed................................................................................................................potential...

Vanessa Ann Vigilante PhD
Feb 5, 20161 min read


Problem and Antidote
problem: entitlement, self-centeredness antidote: blend-in, share knowledge

Vanessa Ann Vigilante PhD
Feb 5, 20161 min read


Choose Happiness
If important others are persistently unhappy, don’t let it bring you down for any extended period of time. It's ok to be sad. Just don't...

Vanessa Ann Vigilante PhD
Feb 3, 20161 min read


Nobody's Perfect
“I was having fun. Snowboarding is fun. I was feeling great that I was ahead. I wanted to share with the crowd my enthusiasm. I messed...

Vanessa Ann Vigilante PhD
Jan 31, 20161 min read


Words Create Circumstances
Be wise about loosely discussing negative thoughts about a situation. Once you put it out there, you have made it real. Words create...

Vanessa Ann Vigilante PhD
Jan 29, 20161 min read


Integrity Over Self-Preservation: Fictional and Real-Life Examples
Doing what is right while knowing the potential personal consequences of doing so is placing integrity over self-preservation. Inspiring...

Vanessa Ann Vigilante PhD
Jan 23, 20161 min read


Instant Well-Being
The reason we find our minds unsettled over a past situation is not the situation itself, but disappointment with our reaction in that...

Vanessa Ann Vigilante PhD
Jan 22, 20161 min read
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